O yes I would Love to have you do a protected blog >:D

I’m not a good person to offer advice or judgments in that regard I’m sort of a recluse

On the one hand I know that there are all sorts of different relationship experiences but like everything these take time away from other sorts of experiences too

But if one sort of relationship is such that you receive nothing in return and yet it deprives you of other things then it’s time to let go

I did that with unconditional Love but I receive a lot of joy from that it’s kind of like having a movie star idol or something and if it wasn’t for that then I too would be in the sort of funk you’re in but it’s unhealthy to prolong that

As difficult as it surely is you have to either withdraw yourself from that weakness you have towards the emotional uplift you used to receive and try to get it from something else

I did that and it was very difficult and led me to the situation I’m in  now. We are both free and either can do whatever we want but I still Love her, so it doesn’t matter to me if she’s with someone else I just don’t feel I want the same thing but if I did I would. If she did I’d still Love her and vice versa. If not then it wasn’t worth it to begin with 

So you have to weigh the costs against the benefits. If there are no benefits and never will be then as much as you Love that person it’s just something that can never be or else it’s something that doesn’t change

Either they adjust to it or you do but Love like almost everything else is an imperfect right, just like buying and selling – you can’t force someone to buy something you have the right to sell and you can’t force someone to sell something that you have the right to buy

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