November 16, 2008
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Sex
I was talking to this woman early this morning about fucking and she was laying down her litanty “no glove no love” and after listening to her I started thinking about the word sex particularly her usage and context and came up with this:
You go to the drug store, buy a pack of gum and chew it
You go to the drug store, buy a pack of rubbers and fuck with them
Both are about equally as necessary“Go figure”
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You buy gum @ the drug store???
Nope, don’t use either
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@EminemsRevenge - Sex is like a fucking wrapper, you know?
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I’m lost..some chewing gum has been shown to have benifical effects…build up jaw muscles..and if sugarless..help clean teeth and give gums a good massaging..
As for condoms…I know for an absolute fact..that you can feel “everything” through one…How as a woman do I know such a thing…( and I would never ever have sex with a non monogamous partner without one…I would like to contiue to live thank you very much) ….
I have a pt who was dying from an AIDS related disease..He died..When the funeral home got there they refused to help me remove his external cath…or his jogging long legged pants that he had on so I could get to the external cath….they stood there with their green bio hazord gloves on ..like statues
The man was large and not to put too fine a point on it “dead wt” …
As I gloved up in what I had with me..normal latex gloves and dug down to see if I could somehow disconnect him …squeez off the tubing and run it out the ankle of his pants…the external cath came off in my hands.,…urine..soaked my hands…I had lots of paper cuts and a slice from a vegitable knife on my hands…It was Christmas Eve…I had a young child at home..waiting…It took another 5 min to remove the tubing etc..during which time I had no idea at all if my hand was “wet” or not…the urine was warm and felt very wet…I was sure my glove had a rip in it……and thought in that moment..”what a stupid way to die..not double gloving and not demanding help” ….5 min later..as they rolled him out I was able to go to a private place and remove the gloves..I still on eye contact…with my own hand…had no idea if the gloves were compromised or not..until I peeled them off…both my hands were dry.,..Wheeew
but I spent a very long 5 min assessing my life and the potential of my little one growing up with a very ill mother..or none at all…because…there was no way to tell if I was drenched in HIV or not…
Bottom Line: It is a psychological thing that guys say…”I cant feel as much” ……………oooh yes you can……I spent 5 min looking a deadly visus in the face and I wished I had not been so sure ..my hand was wet with warm fluid*
Hugs..xoxo >>Dy<<
Well it’s sort of ancillary to my point - but interesting, because the woman talking to me and essentially treating me like a John or free quickie, had a (her term) “relationship” for 3 years which she just ended . Hardly a stranger but whatever. I don’t think for me it’s a matter of feeling, I get that from Love – the mental aspect ‘lights’ that switch to my prime merideans. For me it’s more of a restraint issue like ‘yes we can have sex but please leave your clothes on’, or ‘can’t you just take the pp part out of the fly on your Carhart coveralls put a rubber on that and just use the tip; here I’ll lift my skirt and pull my undies aside but don’t look. Ok go ahead but not too deep and hurry up’.
There is a reason why men laugh at the joke “what is the most often told lie a man says to a woman”? Answer “I promise I won’t cum in your mouth”
There is also the intimacy issue – viz, this is skin to skin and my private part is inside of your body as opposed to – well there’s this latex covered dildo kind of like an internal examination thing and it’ll be out in a minute and in the shower
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So for me that sort of sex isn’t necessary and actually more like – why bother? Being thoroughly nude and stroking my cock ad libitum is far more pleasurable. The women that prefer a certain type and brand makes this even more distressing
However something that comes in a wrapper and is sold in the drug store just like chewing gum has made the activity more like chewing gum as opposed to say chewing food or anything that has to do with procreation
I just never had meaningful sex with a rubber. It’s not my style. Recall too that in March it will be 9 years since I had sex with anyone, which includes blows jobs and kissing
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The contrast is interesting though because I stopped doing drugs when the Rocky drug laws were passed – ” a right wing conspiracy against fun” (WF Burrroughs line in “Drugstore Cowboy”) and more or less did the same in re HIV
@blazintommyd - Tommy, it may have been 9 years for you but you sure have some exhibitionist tendencies did anybody ever tell you???? I think that having dozens if not hundreds of total strangers look at your feet, your legs, your ass, and last but not least, your circumsized penis, is a very naughty ego trip for you and dear old dad to say nothing of grandpa would be….
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SHOCK-KED….now now not a nice Jewish boy….zip your fly…leave the toilet seat down so people can’t tell that a man has been there….
Tommy, now that I think about it, in a way you take over where Howard Stern leaves off. They should have some kind of naughty, very late at night television show late at night on cable TV called something like: “Jerkin’ It Together With Tommy”.
Carhartt coats are stereotypically lesbian I’ve been told…
@DysonianEyes - That poor big man….SUCH a big man….SUCH a big man….he was a Saint Bernard of a man…how do you think he got AIDS???? Did he get it from drugs, or do you think he got it from badddd meat-in-the-can??????
I think that you must have big strong hands. I think that you must have been wearing Easy Striders and I wonder what kind of socks you were wearing when you were dismantling the tubing of the AIDSbutch. (He’d gone out on AIDS Butch Patrol and never returned to this planet…they are out there somewhere, a pride of AIDSbutch 400 strong, towheaded and taciturn, calm as the North Sea, black turtlenecks and straitjacketed, half man and half motor scooter like the English mod, Vespas, square English bulldog faces, stiff upper lip…)
@forwhomthebelsentolls - I agree with you about the radio show, TV would be even better. I did have an open invitation to be with Susan Block on the big bed for years but a conflict occcurred between myself and her people (she’s on my space last I knew). Yes there is a certain degree of let’s say “neo-sexual” pleasure (I hereby on this date coined a new term) in exhibitionism but it’s far different than sex. I just got to the point where auto-erections are gone (morning wood nothwithstanding) and now require erotic-erections, the best in this regard is Love but over stimulus sort of works.
I suppose where I draw the line is forcing an orgasm. I don’t like to do that, I like it where it’s effortless. With a rubber or for the most part with the FleshLight I have to force it – very bad for the prostate. There is really only one stimulus with the hand that rivals actual sex and I have serious doubts as to whether I could do actual sex with anyone but her
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@forwhomthebelsentolls - :O
Randall, “behave yourself” or I’ll have to invoke my demi-goddess, Evie !!
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